{"id":7304,"date":"2023-04-20T15:18:58","date_gmt":"2023-04-20T15:18:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mollekuqja.coreup.co\/?p=7304"},"modified":"2024-10-19T15:21:51","modified_gmt":"2024-10-19T15:21:51","slug":"rmv-as-ligjet-si-parandalojne-dot-femijet-qe-te-martohen-pasojat-afatgjate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mollekuqja.coreup.co\/mk\/rmv-as-ligjet-si-parandalojne-dot-femijet-qe-te-martohen-pasojat-afatgjate\/","title":{"rendered":"RMV: As ligjet s’i parandalojn\u00eb dot f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb t\u00eb martohen, pasojat afatgjate"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Martesat e t\u00eb miturve n\u00eb\u00a0 Maqedonin\u00eb e Veriut mbeten problem i pazgjidhur n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsi p\u00ebr vendin. Numri i rasteve t\u00eb evidentuara \u00ebsht\u00eb i lart\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa problemi mbetet m\u00eb i theksuar te komuniteti rom.\u00a0Moll\u00ebkuqja.mk\u00a0<\/strong>ju sjell nj\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb shum\u00eb dimensionale t\u00eb k\u00ebtij fenomeni n\u00eb Maqedonin\u00eb e Veriut.<\/p>\n

T\u00eb dh\u00ebnat t\u00eb cilat i siguruam nga\u00a0Ministria e Pun\u00ebs dhe Politik\u00ebs Sociale<\/strong>\u00a0n\u00eb lidhje me martesat e t\u00eb miturve jan\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuese.<\/p>\n

Sipas raportit t\u00eb\u00a0IP Enti p\u00ebr Veprimtari Sociale<\/strong>\u00a0i p\u00ebrgatitur mbi baz\u00ebn e t\u00eb dh\u00ebnave t\u00eb siguruara nga 30 qendra p\u00ebr pun\u00eb sociale, situata me t\u00eb miturit mbi 16 vje\u00e7 q\u00eb duan t\u00eb martohen dhe i jan\u00eb drejtuar qendrave p\u00ebr pun\u00eb sociale \u00ebsht\u00eb si vijon:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Megjithat\u00eb k\u00ebto shifra jozyrtarisht jan\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb larta, marr\u00eb parasysh se jo t\u00eb gjitha rastet kan\u00eb mundur t\u00eb evidentohen.<\/p>\n

Q\u00eb problemi me martesat e t\u00eb miturve \u00ebsht\u00eb kronik kjo mund t\u00eb shihet edhe n\u00eb\u00a0Raportin e vitit 2022 t\u00eb Departamentit Amerikan t\u00eb Shtetit p\u00ebr Maqedonin\u00eb e Veriut<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>mbi praktikat e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb njeriut, aty theksohet se kjo m\u00eb e p\u00ebrhapur \u00ebsht\u00eb te komuniteti rom.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Martesat e hershme dhe e detyruar ka ndodhur n\u00eb komunitetin rom dhe, n\u00eb nj\u00eb mas\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, n\u00eb disa komunitete shqiptare dhe t\u00eb tjera. Ministria e Pun\u00ebs dhe Politik\u00ebs Sociale dokumentoi martesat e hershme, n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat nj\u00ebra ose t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt ishin 16 ose 17 vje\u00e7. Sipas OJQ-ve lokale, martesat e hershme dhe t\u00eb detyruara n\u00eb mesin e komunitetit rom p\u00ebrb\u00ebnin 15-20 p\u00ebrqind t\u00eb numrit t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm t\u00eb martesave t\u00eb hershme dhe t\u00eb detyruara n\u00eb vendi, duke sh\u00ebnuar r\u00ebnie progresive krahasuar me vitet e m\u00ebparshme.<\/p>\n

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Raporti i DASh-it p\u00ebr RMV-n\u00eb p\u00ebr vitin 2022<\/p>\n

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Profesoresha e s\u00eb drejt\u00ebs familjare,\u00a0Arta Selmani \u2013 Bakiu\u00a0<\/strong>thekson se nuk ka nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizim konkret p\u00ebr nocionin e martes\u00ebs, kjo p\u00ebr arsye se bazuar n\u00eb pik\u00ebpamjet e ndryshme lidhur me natyr\u00ebn juridike t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, p\u00ebrmbajtjen dhe q\u00ebllimin e saj, ekzistojn\u00eb\u0308 p\u00ebrkufizime te\u0308 shumta te\u0308 nocionit t\u00eb martes\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Ligji p\u00ebr Familjen jep definicionin juridik t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, sipas t\u00eb cilit Martesa e\u0308shte\u0308 nje\u0308 bashke\u0308si e jete\u0308sore e rregulluar me ligj e nje\u0308 burri dhe nje\u0308 gruaje, ne\u0308 te\u0308 cile\u0308n realizohen interesat e bashke\u0308shorte\u0308ve martesore\u0308, te\u0308 familjes dhe shoqe\u0308rise\u0308 (neni 6 paragafi 1).<\/p>\n

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Arta Selmani – Bakiu<\/p>\n

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N\u00eb lidhje me mosh\u00ebn e lejuar t\u00eb martesave n\u00eb RMV, profesoresha sqaron se\u00a0Ligji p\u00ebr Familjen\u00a0<\/strong>definon kushtet ligjore me p\u00ebrmbushjen e t\u00eb cilave mund t\u00eb lidhet martesa, t\u00eb cilat diferencohen n\u00eb dy gurpe.<\/p>\n

“E para, kushte esenciale p\u00ebr lidhjen e martes\u00ebs (dallimi i gjinive t\u00eb personave t\u00eb cil\u00ebt d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb lidhin martes\u00eb; pajtimi i vullnetit t\u00eb lir\u00eb t\u00eb deklaruar nga personat q\u00eb lidhin martes\u00ebn si dhe forma p\u00ebr lidhjen e martes\u00ebs). E dyta, kushtet p\u00ebr plotfuqishm\u00ebrin\u00eb e martes\u00ebs (mosekzistimi i pengesave martesore, si\u00e7 jan\u00eb: mituria; martesa ekzistuese; forma e manifestuar e s\u00ebmundjes shpirt\u00ebrore, paaft\u00ebsia p\u00ebr gjykim dhe zhvillimi i met\u00eb mendor; t\u00eb metat e vullnetit; dhe gjinia e gjakut, e adoptimit t\u00eb plot\u00eb dhe e krushqis\u00eb).” tha\u00a0ajo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sipas profesoresh\u00ebs, mituria si penges\u00eb martesore nuk lejon q\u00eb t\u00eb lidhet martesa midis personave t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk kan\u00eb arritur pjekurin\u00eb martesore, nd\u00ebrkaq\u00a0pjekuria martesore arrihet n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 18 vje\u00e7e.<\/strong>\u00a0N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kuptim, ajo thekson se Ligji p\u00ebr Familjen parashikon se,\u00a0Nuk mund t\u00eb lidh martes\u00eb personi i cili nuk i ka mbushur 18 vje<\/em>t (neni 16 parag.1).<\/p>\n

Megjithat\u00eb ka p\u00ebrjashtime se kur dhe n\u00ebn cilat kushte mund t\u00eb lidhen martesat e mitura.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Pe\u0308r shkaqe te\u0308 arsyeshme, gjykata kompetente mund te\u0308 lejoje\u0308 lidhjen e martes\u00ebs sipas k\u00ebrkes\u00ebs nga nje\u0308 i mitur i cili ka arritur mosh\u00ebn 16 vje\u00e7are. Nj\u00eb\u0308 lejim i k\u00ebtill\u00eb\u0308 do te\u0308 jete\u0308 i mundur n\u00ebse gjykata, ne\u0308 procedure\u0308 jokontestimore, v\u00ebrteton se personi ka arritur pjekuri fizike dhe psikike te\u0308 nevojshme pe\u0308r ushtrimin e te\u0308 drejtave dhe obligimeve qe\u0308 dalin nga martesa, e gjitha kjo, pas mendimit te\u0308 marre\u0308 paraprakisht nga institucioni sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor si dhe ndihm\u00ebs profesionale te\u0308 ofruar nga Qendra pe\u0308r Pune\u0308 Sociale (neni 16 parag.2, Ligji pe\u0308r Familjen). Pra, gjykata e\u0308shte\u0308 e obliguar qe\u0308 t\u2019i analizoje\u0308 edhe cile\u0308site\u0308 personale, gjendjen pasurore dhe rrethanat e tjera esenciale, qe\u0308 kane\u0308 te\u0308 be\u0308jne\u0308 me personin me te\u0308 cilin i mituri de\u0308shiron te\u0308 lidh martese\u0308 (neni 98, Ligji pe\u0308r procedure\u0308 Jokontestimore).<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Arta Selmani – Bakiu<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Profesoresha thekson se lejimi i lidhjes s\u00eb martesave t\u00eb k\u00ebtilla, paraqet shkelje t\u00eb\u00a0Konvent\u00ebs s\u00eb OKB-s\u00eb<\/strong>\u00a0p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, kjo p\u00ebr arsye se sipas Konvent\u00ebs, f\u00ebmij\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7do qenie njer\u00ebzore n\u00ebn mosh\u00ebn 18 vje\u00e7are. Ajo shtoi se e patolerueshme \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhja e martesave n\u00ebn mosh\u00ebn 16 vje\u00e7are, veprim ky q\u00eb paraqet penges\u00eb martesore t\u00eb paevitueshme duke shkaktuar pavlefshm\u00ebri absolute t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, andaj martesa e till\u00eb duhet t\u00eb anulohet.<\/p>\n

“N\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb hasen shum\u00eb situata t\u00eb bashk\u00ebsive jasht\u00ebmartesore t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb mitur me lejen ose pa lejen e prind\u00ebrve, madje edhe shtatz\u00ebni t\u00eb vajzave t\u00eb mitura nga k\u00ebto bashk\u00ebsi jasht\u00ebmartesore. Nd\u00ebrlidhur me k\u00ebt\u00eb, nj\u00eb t\u00eb mituri t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs 16 vje\u00e7are i lejohet edhe njohja e at\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs jasht\u00ebmartesor (neni 55, Ligji p\u00ebr Familjen). Martesat e t\u00eb miturve n\u00ebn 16 vje\u00e7, nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb lejuara me Ligjin p\u00ebr Familjen, madje jan\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebnueshme edhe me Kodin penal. T\u00eb palejuara jan\u00eb edhe martesat e detyruara t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.\u201d” tha Bakiu.<\/p>\n

Martesat te t\u00eb miturit: \u201cDevijim social dhe antikultur\u00eb\u201d<\/h5>\n

Sipas pik\u00ebpamjes s\u00eb sociologut\u00a0Ali Pajaziti<\/strong>, t\u00eb miturit duhet q\u00eb fillimisht t\u00eb piqen vet\u00eb, t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb jete dhe m\u00eb pas t\u00eb hidhen n\u00eb uj\u00ebrat e martes\u00ebs. Ai shtoi se b\u00ebjn\u00eb gabim fatal t\u00eb gjith\u00eb familjet q\u00eb bekojn\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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K\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebhen kandidat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb lindur f\u00ebmij\u00eb s\u2019e kan\u00eb iden\u00eb as vet\u00eb se kush jan\u00eb dhe nga shkojn\u00eb, s\u2019din\u00eb sa duhet p\u00ebr rregullat e jet\u00ebs, t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00ebs, t\u00eb p\u00ebrkujdesjes, t\u00eb arsimit, vet\u00ebkultivimit, t\u00eb ekonomis\u00eb, andaj \u00ebsht\u00eb gabim fatal q\u00eb familjet t\u00eb bekojn\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb t\u00eb pakoh\u00eb, t\u00eb hershme, jolegjitime. T\u00eb miturin edhe fjalori i shqipes e p\u00ebrkufizon si nj\u00eb person q\u00eb \u201cnuk \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb ende zot i vetes dhe i p\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr veprimet e tij\u201d. Nj\u00eb person i till\u00eb si do mbaj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi bashk\u00ebshortin\/en, p\u00ebr tjetrin apo t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt e mundsh\u00ebm q\u00eb mund t\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb? I mituri duhet t\u00eb piqet, t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb ca eksperienc\u00eb jete, ta shoh\u00eb e ta kuptoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn, t\u00eb ngrit\u00ebt e t\u00eb rritet si personalitet, m\u00eb pas t\u00eb bashkohet me dik\u00eb, t\u00eb hidhet n\u00eb uj\u00ebrat e martes\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Ai thase t\u00eb miturit nuk e kan\u00eb as konceptin p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb, t\u00eb asnj\u00ebrit lloj, as t\u00eb bashk\u00ebrenditjes e t\u00eb kooperimit me nj\u00eb vete tjet\u00ebr, andaj i duhet koh\u00eb, kultivim, p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar epitetin bashk\u00ebshort\/e, burr\u00eb\/grua, baba\/n\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Martesa t\u00eb vegjlish, pasoja t\u00eb m\u00ebdha psikologjike<\/h5>\n

Meq\u00eb sipas studimeve, nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e konsiderueshme e k\u00ebtyre martesave jan\u00eb t\u00eb sforcuara – psikologia\u00a0Sabrije Tefiki<\/strong>\u00a0p\u00ebr\u00a0Moll\u00ebkuqja\u00a0<\/strong>flet n\u00eb lidhje me pasojat q\u00eb mund t\u00eb sjell\u00eb ky fenomen tek ata, pjesa m\u00eb e madhe prej tyre jan\u00eb afatgjate.<\/p>\n

“Hulumtimet\u00a0tregojn\u00eb\u00a0se t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb e detyruar t\u00eb martohen kund\u00ebr d\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb nivele m\u00eb t\u00eb larta t\u00eb depresionit, ankthit dhe \u00e7rregullimit t\u00eb stresit post-traumatik (PTSD). P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, ata mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb munges\u00eb kontrolli mbi jet\u00ebn e tyre, gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb \u00e7oj\u00eb n\u00eb ndjenja pafuqie dhe vet\u00ebbesim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt. Kjo munges\u00eb kontrolli mund t\u00eb \u00e7oj\u00eb gjithashtu n\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb krijimin e nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe funksionale. Studimet kan\u00eb treguar se martesat e detyruara shpesh rezultojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb incidenc\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje, abuzimit seksual dhe detyrimit riprodhues, gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb \u00e7oj\u00eb n\u00eb trauma fizike dhe emocionale si p\u00ebr vajzat ashtu edhe p\u00ebr djemt\u00eb.” tha Sabrije Tefiki, psikologe.<\/p>\n

Ajo shtoi se\u00a0ka dallim se si k\u00ebto martesa t\u00eb detyruara mund t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb te vajzat dhe djemt\u00eb<\/strong>. Sipas saj, vajzat kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb dhun\u00eb fizike dhe seksuale si dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me pengesa m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha p\u00ebr\u00a0qasjen n\u00eb arsim dhe mund\u00ebsit\u00eb e karrier\u00ebs, duke \u00e7uar n\u00eb izolim dhe p\u00ebrjashtim m\u00eb t\u00eb madh social. Nd\u00ebrkaq, djemt\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me presion p\u00ebr t\u00eb siguruar familjet e tyre n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re, duke \u00e7uar n\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb kufizuara p\u00ebr arsimim dhe avancim n\u00eb karrier\u00eb.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Martesat e detyruara mund t\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtimin e t\u00eb rinjve nga aktivitetet shoq\u00ebrore. Pritja p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushur rolet tradicionale gjinore dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb e t\u00eb rriturve n\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re mund t\u00eb kufizoj\u00eb mund\u00ebsit\u00eb p\u00ebr arsimim, zhvillim karriere dhe rritje personale. Kjo, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, mund t\u00eb \u00e7oj\u00eb n\u00eb izolim social. Martesat e detyruara mund t\u00eb rezultojn\u00eb gjithashtu n\u00eb humbjen e p\u00ebrvojave t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb dhe adoleshenc\u00ebs, duke \u00e7uar n\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb mund\u00ebsive t\u00eb humbura dhe potencialit t\u00eb paplot\u00ebsuar. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, martesa e detyruar mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb efekte negative afatgjata n\u00eb mir\u00ebqenien sociale dhe emocionale t\u00eb t\u00eb rinjve, gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb n\u00eb aft\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushur si t\u00eb rritur. K\u00ebto gjetje mb\u00ebshteten nga studime k\u00ebrkimore empirike dhe jan\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrputhje me kornizat teorike brenda fush\u00ebs s\u00eb psikologjis\u00eb.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Shoq\u00ebria civile: Luftojm\u00eb n\u00eb zgjidhjen e problemit, institucionet duhet t\u00eb angazhohen m\u00eb shum\u00eb<\/h5>\n

Aktivistija p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtave e grave rome,\u00a0Almira Fasli\u00a0<\/strong>p\u00ebr\u00a0Moll\u00ebkuqja\u00a0<\/strong>shprehet se kjo dukuri paraqet problem dhe sfid\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb familje dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb n\u00eb shum\u00eb aspekte.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, ky fenomen \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm n\u00eb komunitetet ku nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi i ul\u00ebt, njohurit\u00eb e pamjaftueshme, qasja n\u00eb arsim, pun\u00ebsimi, p\u00ebrballja me diskriminim n\u00eb \u00e7do fush\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb nivel shum\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, edhe te komuniteti rom. Organizatat joqeveritare q\u00eb punojn\u00eb n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb grave kan\u00eb vite q\u00eb luftojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb parandaluar martesat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Mund t\u00eb v\u00ebrehet se \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb progres n\u00eb krahasim me vitet e kaluara, pra sipas informacioneve t\u00eb Ministris\u00eb s\u00eb Arsimit dhe Shkenc\u00ebs, nj\u00eb num\u00ebr shum\u00eb m\u00eb i madh i vajzave rome vazhdojn\u00eb shkollimin se sa djemt\u00eb, si dhe nj\u00eb rritje e k\u00ebtij numri krahasuar me 10 vite m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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Ajo shton se ky problem ekziston ende, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb angazhimit t\u00eb vet\u00eb institucioneve p\u00ebr t\u00eb vepruar, p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar masat e duhura p\u00ebr edukimin dhe pun\u00ebsimin e rom\u00ebve me synimin p\u00ebr uljen e varf\u00ebris\u00eb. Sipas saj “p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, tradita dhe kultura e martesave t\u00eb detyruara t\u00eb mitura \u00ebsht\u00eb ende e pranishme n\u00eb komunitetin rom, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t’u \u00e7rr\u00ebnjosur sepse tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb jetese” p\u00ebrfundoi Fasli.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Megjashi: \u00cbsht\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuese q\u00eb martesat mes f\u00ebmij\u00ebve kurr\u00eb nuk raportohen tek ne<\/h5>\n

Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, nga\u00a0Ambasada e F\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u201cMegjashi\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0duke theksuar pasojat dhe se si k\u00ebto martesa njihen sipas Ligjit p\u00ebr familjen\u00a0n\u00eb vend, sqarojn\u00eb se ndodh shpesh q\u00eb prind\u00ebr t\u00eb paarsimuar dhe nga familje t\u00eb pafavorizuara sociale t\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulin q\u00eb f\u00ebmija i tyre t\u00eb martohet m\u00eb her\u00ebt, p\u00ebr ta shp\u00ebtuar at\u00eb nga varf\u00ebria.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Si Ambasad\u00eb e F\u00ebmij\u00ebve, ne kemi qen\u00eb aktive prej vitesh dhe vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb avokojm\u00eb p\u00ebr informimin mbi t\u00eb drejtat dhe detyrimet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe prind\u00ebrve, si dhe duke nd\u00ebrmarr\u00eb aktivitete n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb pun\u00ebs s\u00eb Megjashit p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin p\u00ebr r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e p\u00ebrfshirjes s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb procesin edukativo-arsimor q\u00eb nga mosha e hershme. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, ende ka tendenc\u00eb q\u00eb sinjalizuesit n\u00eb AloBushavko – numri i telefonit p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe t\u00eb rinj 070 390 632 n\u00eb “Megjashi” t\u00eb kontaktojn\u00eb n\u00ebse ka dhun\u00eb n\u00eb vet\u00eb komunitetin, por ata pothuajse kurr\u00eb nuk raportojn\u00eb martesat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve ose nuk informohen p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyrat t\u00eb cilat mund t\u00eb sanksionohen ose parandalohen.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Klementina Dob\u00ebrska, koordinatore e Alo Bushavko, numrit p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe t\u00eb rinj<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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Nga atje shtojn\u00eb se p\u00ebrfshirja n\u00eb nj\u00eb proces t\u00eb rregullt edukativo-arsimor, ndryshimet dhe plot\u00ebsimet n\u00eb Ligjin e Familjes q\u00eb asnj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mos martohet, gjegj\u00ebsisht t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb bashk\u00ebsi martesore apo jasht\u00ebmartesore deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 18 vje\u00e7are, jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb nga m\u00ebnyrat p\u00ebr rritjen e vet\u00ebdijes dhe zgjatjen martes\u00ebs e hershme, duke e zgjidhur gradualisht k\u00ebt\u00eb problem djeg\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

“Shtes\u00eb, p\u00ebrpjekjet, fushatat dhe edukimet duhet t\u00eb realizohen edhe n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb institucioneve kompetente (Ministria e Arsimit, Ministria e Sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe Ministria e Pun\u00ebs dhe Politik\u00ebs Sociale). Stafi q\u00eb do t\u00eb punoj\u00eb n\u00eb terren ekskluzivisht me familjet dhe grupet e cenueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin p\u00ebr pasojat e martesave t\u00eb t\u00eb miturve dhe \u00e7far\u00eb ndikimi kan\u00eb ato n\u00eb zhvillimin psiko-fizik t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb se i nevojsh\u00ebm. Kur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb pal\u00ebt e interesuara do t\u00eb flisnim me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb p\u00ebr martesat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve n\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsimin e tyre, ato nuk do t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb nj\u00eb tem\u00eb tabu apo thjesht nj\u00eb problem trans-gjenerativ q\u00eb preferohet n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri si nj\u00eb fenomen krejt\u00ebsisht normal. Asnj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb pak i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb vlejn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat t\u00eb drejta si p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb” tha\u00a0Dob\u00ebrska<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Ndryshe, sipas t\u00eb dh\u00ebnave nga Asociacioni p\u00ebr Edukim Sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor dhe Hulumtim \u201cHera\u201d,\u00a0shkalla e shtatz\u00ebnive t\u00eb paplanifikuara tek adoleshent\u00ebt n\u00eb Maqedonin\u00eb e Veriut \u00ebsht\u00eb 11 p\u00ebrqind dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga m\u00eb t\u00eb lartat n\u00eb Evrop\u00eb<\/strong>. Numri m\u00eb i madh i n\u00ebnave jan\u00eb t\u00eb mitura rome, por qasja e tyre n\u00eb informacion dhe sh\u00ebrbime n\u00eb sh\u00ebndetin seksual dhe riprodhues \u00ebsht\u00eb e kufizuar.<\/p>\n